I found another one about cheating men.
Signs of Cheating Men
1. You get that gut feeling that tells you he’s cheating on you. Things just aren’t adding up. You all of sudden feel the need to go through his belongings almost expecting to find something.
2. When you question your man he gets very defensive. He might even get mad at you to throw you off. He is hoping that you will put your thoughts of infidelity to rest if you are afraid to ask about it.
3. His stories aren’t making sense. This is because he will make up a story at that time and for the moment not realizing that the date or times don’t add up. He will sometimes forget what he told 3 days ago. So make a mental note and ask again casually in 3 days. Work will seem to pop up a lot to cover time lapses. This is classic. I was the hardest working man when I was cheating!
4. You are feeling that dis-connected feeling within your relationship. Remember that see-saw back in the school yard. When one side went up, you know where the other side was. This is usually the same when your mate is having an affair. Many times there is a deeper problem in the relationship that would need to be fixed anyhow if you are to truly be happy. Although you are not to blame for someone stepping out on a relationship, infidelity is usually a symptom of a deeper problem.
5. You discover e-mail accounts that you didn’t know existed. He will refuse to give you access to his email account. He’s not stupid! Is he?
6. He doesn’t invite you around his friends, company events, and other social activities. Is he cheating at work? It can be worse than a nightclub. There will probably be less of a chance that he is cheating at a night club.
7. Unusual mood swings. These are one of many signs of cheating men that is caused by the internal conflict and struggle that you man is going through during his time of infidelity.
8. The sex frequency has changed! Yup, I remember a conversation with a man in a night club many years ago and what he told me was.
“If you remember one thing, remember that if your wife is use to having sex 3 times a week, it should never fall below 3.It can be more sometimes but never less!”
He had this sign covered. The problem is that many men will have a few signs covered, but there are just too many to hide.
http://www.signs-of-a-cheater.com/signs_of_cheating_men.html
All of these were true of my husband. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. He was cheating with a woman from the office…
How long before you found out? I you don’t mind me asking
I suspected it almost as soon as he started it. Literally, within 2 weeks of it beginning, I knew. He confessed it a month in when I overheard him on the phone with her.
We had been together for 4 years and married for 5 months.
I shouldn’t have been surprised. After all, I had been *his* mistress…
Right, not to be rude: “what goes around comes around”, they say. Did you guys work it out though???
No. We did not work it out. He had no desire to work it out with me (or with any of the women he has done this to prior to me). I *knew* I was his mistress, but I thought I was “special”. He convinced me so. What I found out when his affair with me was exposed was that there had been a LOOOOONG line of mistresses in both of his previous marriages. I had no clue. (Check out my blog for the gory details).
You’re right, though, about “what goes around….” Somewhere, deep inside, I always knew that…. Let’s just hope it holds true for him.
You know, for some reason I can’t access your blog. I’ve been trying, but I can’t. Can you send me the link please?
http://bandnerdtx.wordpress.com
I wonder why you can’t?!